A clingy person don't always have to mean that they are insecure, even though that is the main reason in most cases. But is can also mean that they just love you or like you a lot and want to spend more time with you. It can mean that they're trying to show you the love that they have for you, but in ways that are clingy and they don't mean for it.
A clingy person can cause the other person to feel cluttered with no room or freedom. Which can lead to breakups or lost of interest. Being too much of a clingy person can get the other person annoyed and makes the other person not able to do the things they love without being scoped out.
A distant person isn't always good either. It goes both ways. Lets say you are the distant person and your bf/gf is the clingy person. Since they are clingy they can start to think that you don't like them anymore or have something else going on. Meaning you are giving them the wrong perspective.
SO...which would you rather choose? just pick between the two.
I think it would be better to have someone a little clingy rather than distant. It is better off knowing that your significant other cares about you and sort of bothers you about it. It will be hard on you to just wonder about someone that is distant if they actually love you or not but they don't show it. Clingy>Distant. But I prefer it in the middle please.
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